1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604 Hillsboro Beach, FL 33062 (954) 788-3380 39 Whitney Drive Woodstock, NY 12498 (845) 679-5526 email: SuccessAerobics@aol.com website: CaryBayer.com


“Everyone who will can hear the Voice. It is within everyone, but like everything else, it requires previous and definite preparation.”
–Mahatma Gandhi


New Class: Thoughtmailâ„¢: Mastering the Inner Technology for Happiness & Success; Webinar on Getting New Healing Arts Clients; Product Profile: “How to Build a $100,000 a Year Massage Business” DVD; “Free Coaching; Affirmations; Quote from the “Experts;” Quotes of the Month; Sign of an Age of Enlightenment?; Breakthroughs; The Cosmic and Comic; Factoid; Testimonial about Coaching; Column: “Stealing your Identity, & Ignoring your Idenity;” Schedule of Classes; Meditation Training now Available by Webcam; Want to Write a Book?; Higher Self Healing Meditation; Blog Cabin; Face to Face to Facebook; Referral Fees; Books and CDs

Brand New Class on Thoughtmailâ„¢ Now Available:

The class described below is my newest one, and it figures to be very popular. It will debut in mid-November in Naples, Florida. If you’d like to have one near you or as a teleclass, let me know and we can set it up. When you produce the class that I give you take it for free and receive 40% of the revenues. You can contact me at successaerobics@aol.com or at(845) 664-1883.

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Mastering the Inner Technology for Happiness & Success

You’ve mastered voicemail, you’ve mastered email,

now it’s time to master Thoughtmailâ„¢.
Thoughtmail, you ask?

Thoughtmailâ„¢ embraces five essential inner communication techniques. It enables you to transform your mind, purify your heart, awaken your Spirit, and create the life you’d love to live.

It incorporates these powerful practices:

  • Affirmation (Positive communication with your own mind)
  • Visualization (Picturing a goal with a mental JPEG)
  • Meditation (Your mind connecting to your higher Self)
  • Prayer (Your heart speaking with God)
  • Telepathy (Your mind transmitting to another mind)

In this workshop, Coach Cary Bayer, author of 40 Days to a Happy Life and the founder of Higher Self Healing Meditationâ„¢, will show you how to master Thoughtmailâ„¢, the inner technology for happiness and success.

25% off Holiday Sale

In the spirit of the holiday season, I’m running a “25 percent off sale” fromDecember 1 through Christmas Eve on all of my products and services. That means my:

* coaching,

* meditation classes,

* books, CDs, DVDs, and mini-books

You can access a full description of all products at the store at


Because products at the site are listed at their normal prices, I’ll send a 25% rebate if you buy on the site’s shopping cart. You can also place the order by:

email at

successsaerobics@aol.com (by including your credit card information)
sending a check in the mail to:

1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604

Hillsboro Beach, FL 33062
or by calling

To enjoy the 25% off sale, please use the code NEWS SALE 15. Please note: There’s a $2.50 shipping and handling charge per item for mini-books, $3 for books, CDs, and DVDs.
This is a great way to get enlightening products at discounted prices for both yourself and for everyone on your holiday shopping list.

Holiday Time Off

To enjoy the upcoming holidays, I’ll be taking time off from Christmas Day through New Year’s Day. My last day of work this year will be December 24, and my first day of work in the following year will be January 2. I won’t be responding to phone calls or emails during that time.

Webinar to Double your Healing Arts Business

On Wednesday November 18, my 4-CE seminar,

“How to Get New Clients”


will begin.

(Massage therapists will get 4 CEs.)


It takes place on four consecutive Wednesday nights–from 8:30-9:30 PMeastern time–with ALL sessions recorded for playback at your convenience.

Dates for the webinar are:


Wednesdays November 18, & 25, and December 2 & 9

In this 4-part webinar, you’ll learn:

  • specific mental techniques to awaken your Success Consciousness that will transform you into a perpetual client magnet
  • how to turn almost anyone you meet into a client
  • how to comfortably network to tap a powerful referral strea


Uniquely qualified to grow a healer’s business, I was:

the keynote speaker at the American Massage Therapy Association national convention

the marketing coach for more than 400 different healers, the author of theGrow a Rich Massage Business trilogy of books, as well as Healer, Heal Thyself

This class cost $120 in the past, but is being priced now for just:

  • the keynote speaker at the American Massage Therapy Association national convention
  • the marketing coach for more than 400 different healers, the author of the Grow a Rich Massage Business trilogy of books, as well as Healer, Heal Thyself

I’ve coached Oscar-winners Alan Arkin (Little Miss Sunshine) and Pietro Scalia (JFK, Black Hawk Down), Emmy-winners comic/director David Steinberg (Academy Awards presentations) and Judy Henderson (Homeland), and Quality Inns. I also owned a marketing and public relations firm for 18 years, and was in charge of the company’s New Business Program.

I write columns regularly on marketing, coaching, and success for Massage Todayand for massage publications in 14 states. My CE classes have been popular with MTs throughout the country, and now you can enjoy them from the comfort of your very own home.

You can register for the course by emailing:

or by calling:

(845) 664-1883

New Product:
“How to Get New Massage Clients”

This 3-CD set of a live webinar will teach you how to:

speak to prospective clients and inspire them to get massaged

speak to clients to inspire them to get massaged more frequently

master “Tele-connecting,” the art of using the phone to inspire ex-clients back to your table

transform the Compliment Rejection Complex that blocks you from receiving appreciation from others, with the 2-minute Acknowledgment Meditation technique that builds self-worth, the basis for building net worth

listen consciously so that people feel heard and in close rapport with you

broach sensitive and uncomfortable topics with clients, such as raising fees and cancellation policies

The cost of the 3-CD, 4-hour set sells for only $34.99, plus $3 for shipping & handling.

It’s available at http://www.themassagemarketingcoach.com/the-massage-coach-cary-bayers-massage-therapists-series-marketing-materials-for-success/. 

Or you can get it by email at SuccessAerobics@aol.com

Product Profile: Prosperity Aerobics Book

This issue’s product is Prosperity Aerobics (see cover below), a 132-page book that was first published 20 years ago. This inner workout for success presents a 15-minute daily program for beginners, a slightly longer one for the intermediate level, and a more thorough one for those who prefer a more advanced approach for breakthroughs. This is a great primer to learn how to make more money, save more money, spend intelligently, and create a life of abundance.

The cost is slight–just $13, plus $3 for shipping and handling. You can order the book at http://carybayer.com/the-prosperity-series.html

Free Coaching

To celebrate November, the month I learned to meditate, I’m offering a complimentary half-hour coaching session for the first person who contacts me by phone

or by email at

who want to have some breakthroughs in his or her life. It’s my way of giving

thanks for the great life that I’m blessed to live. There are only four restrictions, but please read them carefully:

You haven’t already received a free coaching session from me.

You’re not currently involved in a series of coaching sessions with me.

You book the session within three days of winning, so if you call or email, check my response and respond in time. If you forget to do this, someone on the waiting list will take your place, as happens from time to time.

You take the session before November 15.


Here an affirmation from my series on procrastination, success, relationships, communication, and the inner journey, which are available in five mini-books and three CDs.

“I love myself unconditionally.”

–“Affirmations make the Heart Grow Fonder”


Art Director for Books on Meditation & Pop Culture

My newest book, Higher Self Meditations, is finished and ready to be laid out by an art director. Ditto for the one that follows that–Zen in the Art of TV, Movies, Music, & Comic Books. If you or someone you know would like to do that, you can reach me about it at successaerobics@aol.com or by calling me at (845) 664-1883.

Quote of the Month

“Why is it when we talk to God we are praying, but when God talks to us, we’re schizophrenic?”
–Lily Tomlin


“I believe that from the 21st of June, through the International Day of Yoga, it is not just the beginning of a day but the beginning of a new age through which we will achieve greater heights of peace, good will, and train the human spirit,” said India’s Prime Minister Nerendra Modi at the gathering in New Delhi, which drew 35,000 Indians, the largest gathering of yoga in any one place.

The Cosmic & the Comic

“If it were not laughed at, it would not be sufficient to be Tao.”

–Lao Tzu


Forty two percent of Americans never read a book after college. Yikes!

Testimonial on Coaching

“Cary has a breadth of vision, experience and insight in his coaching that dispels business myopia and brings things into focus. His warmth and humor enlighten and uplift the imagination, awaken inspiration, and transform obstacles into possibilities. Like an alchemist he distills the essential, offering keys that unlock creativity and tools for the path, widening the horizon of one’s personal potential and fulfillment.”

–Sarite Sanders, Samadhi Integrative Massage Therapist & Yoga, Bearsville, NY

Syndicated “Life 101” Column

The column below ran in syndication in the past in a variety of wellness publications, including  Arizona Together

Sex & Money

     When I teach my full-day prosperity workshop, “The Secret of Money: How to Use the Law of Attraction for Financial Health & Wealth,” I ask people what they do to bring money into their lives, and how much money they made in the past year. People would much rather discuss their sex lives–even if they’re not that active or good. And when I discuss sex in my relationships classes–“The Secret of Successful Relationships: How to Use the Law of Attraction to Bring More Love into Your Life” for couples and the non-attached, and “How to Find your Soul Mate” for singles interested in attracting a partner–many of the people would rather talk about how much money they made the past year. As you can see…the subjects of sex and money are very uncomfortable for many people. This is highly ironic, because money helps create comfort, and sex feels very comforting.

As much as most people like to think they love sex and money, our language reveals some very different attitudes. Sex is considered original sin by millions of religious people. The ultimate act of love–the creation of children–has become bastardized in our language to be the ultimate mean thing you could say to another person. We also use words for male and female sex organs as cruel epithets.

Most of the words that you can’t say on the radio, as George Carlin demonstrated with such wit, have to do with different acts of sex. Comedians often get their biggest laughs when talking about sex, because of discomfort about it. Physical nakedness is so uncomfortable that we ban it on commercial TV, we ban it in public, and we debase and distort it, turning it into pornography.

Money doesn’t get away that easily either. We have expressions that bespeak the negative beliefs that much of the culture has about our legal tender. When I teach my prosperity workshop, I include a section to show people how to undo such negative thoughts as:

  • “Money is dirty.”
  • “Money corrupts.”
  • “Rich people are greedy and selfish.”
  • And the biggie that links our currency with sex:
  • “Money is the root of all evil.”

Dysfunction: Sexual & Monetary

    According to the Cleveland Clinic, 43 percent of women and 31 percent of men report some degree of sexual dysfunction. In other words, if you were in a room with 100 women and 100 men, 74 of these 200 people would suffer from one difficulty or more in their sex lives. The global ED market alone is expected to reach $3.4 billion by 2019. Yikes…talk about discomfort!

According to an article in Psychology Today, three out of four Americans singled out money as the leading cause of stress in their lives. The article goes on to discuss different kinds of financial maladies, including:

Money Avoidance Disorders (including under-spending and excessive risk aversion). Financial denial and rejection are part of this syndrome.

Money-Worshipping Disorders (including pathological gambling, workaholism, and over-spending). Behaviors such as hoarding and compulsive buying are part of this dysfunction.

Relational Money Disorders (including financial dependence and monetary incest). Financial enabling and financial infidelity (telling “little green lies”) to one’s partner are part of this pathology.

Sex & Money are Innocent

     One of the points that I make in my workshop, “Sex & Money: How to Enjoy an Abundant, Passionate Life,” is that both sex and money are totally innocent. You have no idea how that simple sentence can give some people the heebie-jeebies. But it also can make others feel incredibly relieved. The reason is that the idea undercuts the negative conditioning our society has leveled on these two vital parts of our lives. A knife, I explain, is bad when use by a mugger, yet good when used by a skilled surgeon operating on someone you love. In and of itself, therefore, a knife is neither good nor bad but thinking makes it so, to paraphrase Shakespeare. Ditto for sex and money.

Allow yourself to recognize these two important parts of your life as innocent. When you do, they can help bring an abundance of joy into your life. And isn’t joy the “original win?”


Want to Write a Book?
New Publishing Venture Set up for You to Fulfill that Dream

How would you like to have your own book published and available on Amazon? That dream can now become a reality, with the help of on-demand publishing technology, and the writing, editing, graphic design, and marketing and public relations team that I’ve put in place for that very purpose.

Here’s the team that’s set up for you:


  • A graphic designer who has worked for Disney World, Harley Davidson, and Touchstone Pictures, among other credits. She’s also a complete joy to work with, as I can attest–she was the designer on my most recent book, 40 Days to a Happy Life.
  • A writer/editor who’s been a columnist for The Motley Fool, the editor-in-chief for Mortgageloan.com, Completegrowth.com, and Creditland.com, who has edited five books and was the ghost writer on one. She also wrote for such Fortune 500 companies as Merrill Lynch, Morgan Stanley, Charles Schwab, Prudential, and the Hartford, among others.
  • Also on the team as a writer is yours truly. I’ve written five full-length books and more than three dozen mini-books.

The venture’s book publicist has helped authors make the best-seller lists of the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal, and has had her clients featured on Oprah, The Today Show, Good Morning, America, Time, Newsweek, Business Week, Forbes, NPR, Redbook, and Ladies’ Home Journal, among others. She’s worked for such authors as Jack Canfield and Jacqueline Miller,

Heart at Work (McGraw-Hill); Terri Orbuch, 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great (Random House); Sophy Burnham, The Path of Prayer: Reflections on Prayer and True Stories of How It Affects Our Lives (Viking Penguin); and Charles Garfield, Susun Weed, Gerald Celente, and Drs. Susan Lark, Ro Brock, and Stephen Sinatra, among others, and for authors who’ve been published by virtually every major publishing house in America.

If you’d like to talk about how you can have a dream come true and have your own book or mini-book in print, and would either like to write it or have someone ghost write it for you, don’t hesitate to call at (954) 788-3380, or email me atsuccessaerobics@aol.com.

We’re here to make that dream of yours come true.

Higher Self Healing Meditation

I’m proud to announce the development of a new meditation training that’s been marinating in the quietest levels of consciousness deep within my soul for a number of years.

Its name is Higher Self Healing Meditation, and it’s as effortless as Transcendental Meditation (TM) that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi trained me to teach when I was 20 years old.

Some years back, the movement that teaches the late Maharishi’s system of TM significantly changed the requirements for those who had been teaching to continue to do so. As a result, thousands of others, including myself, no longer instruct that method. But understanding the mechanics of how the mind transcends in meditation after teaching meditation to so many hundreds of people from southern California and Western Europe to the Caribbean and many points in between–as well as training dozens of teachers of Transcendental Meditation–I’ve developed a system of meditation that’s as effective as TM, as easy as TM, and available at one third the price that it costs to learn TM.
Have you thought about incorporating a daily stress-management system to:

  • release deep-rooted tension
  • increase energy
  • stimulate creativity
  • enliven happiness, and
  • enable you to contact the inexhaustible reservoir of creativity and intelligence deep within you at the transcendental level of Being?

If so, let me know, and I can explain how easy it is to learn over the course of five hours in three consecutive days. You can reach me by email atsuccessaerobics@aol.com or by phone at (845) 679-5526.

Blog Cabin

I have my site set up properly, and I’ve begun to write regularly. If  you would like to have my blog entries emailed to you, there’s a place on my website where you can enter your email address:


Face to Face to Facebook

With the Internet being a much faster means of transport than the Interstate highways I find myself on each month, the World Wide Web is, like rock ‘n’ roll, here to stay, and presumably, also will never die. That being the case, I’ve recently created two pages on Facebook that can help you create breakthroughs in a variety of ways. The pages are called:

Cary Bayer Breakthrough Coaching

You can easily subscribe to the service by clicking the Like button on top of the page at http://www.facebook.com/BreakthroughCoaching


Business Coaching for Massage Therapists

You can easily subscribe to the service by clicking the Like button on top of the page at http://www.facebook.com/BusinessCoachingForLMTs

Why the latter? Because, these handy (pun intended) healers comprise the largest percentage of my coaching client population. So check your Facebook walls and let me know what you think about my posts.

By the way, if you’re not yet a fan of either page, you can join up easily at either of the addresses above.

Referral Fees

When I ran my own marketing/PR firm, I loved thanking anyone who referred a new client to me, by sending a check for 10 percent of the fees generated. I have a similar policy as a life coach, a meditation teacher, and the writer of books for others. If you inspire someone to become a client of mine for coaching or book writing, or a meditation student, you’ll receive 10 percent of the fee that that person begins with me at. That could easily mean a check for you of $105 or $65 for coaching, for $50 for meditation, and hundreds of dollars for book publishing.

It’s my way of saying, “thanks.” My thought is simple–who couldn’t use a piece of unexpected income?

Growth Products from Cary Bayer

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