Cary’s March-April newsletter is now online at



Success Aerobics
1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604,

Hillsboro Beach, FL 33062

(954) 788-3380

Woodstock, NY 12498
(845) 664-1883



“Everyone who will can hear the Voice. It is within everyone, but like everything else, it requires previous and definite preparation.”

–Mahatma Gandhi


New Class: “Love Trumps Hate: Tools for Spiritual & Political Empowerment,” Webinar on Gaining New Healing Arts Clients; Free Coaching; Affirmations; Quotes from the “Experts;” Quotes of the Month; Breakthroughs; The Cosmic and Comic; Factoid; Testimonial about Coaching; Column: “Do you Gamble on your Happiness?”; Schedule of Classes; Meditation Training now Available by Webcam; Want to Write a Book?;
Higher Self Healing Meditation; Blog Cabin; Social Media;
Referral Fees; Books and CDs

New Class:

“Love Trumps Hate:  Tools for Spiritual & Political Empowerment”

In these politically polarized times, millions of people in the Divided States of America who voted for the person who won the popular vote feel disenfranchised and alienated by the new President and his Administration. This has been evidenced by massive demonstrations throughout the country.

This integrated workshop has been created to help these people give voice to their positions and, at the same time, awaken a higher consciousness that’s needed to maintain inner peace while doing so.   The class is twofold in purpose: to empower such people spiritually so that they stay inspired and resist falling into despair, and to arm them politically with constructive actions that they can take so that their representatives truly and persistently hear their messages.

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This class, so necessary now for so many millions of Americans, can be taught in person or over the phone.  If you’d like to bring it to your community (whether in person or virtual) please call me at (845) 664-1883.  You get to take it for free, and enjoy 40% of its revenues.  And bring much-needed tips and relief for the people in your world.

Webinar to Gain New Clients

On March 9, my 4-CE seminar,

“How to Gain New Healing Arts Clients”

will begin. (Massage therapists will get 4 CEs.) It takes place from 8:30-9:30 PM eastern time–with ALL sessions recorded for playback at your convenience.
Dates for the webinar are:

Thursdays March 9, 16, 23 & 30

In this 4-part webinar, you’ll learn:

  • specific mental techniques to awaken your Success Consciousness that will transform you into a perpetual client magnet.
  • how to turn almost anyone you meet into a client
  • how to comfortably network to tap a powerful referral stream

Uniquely qualified to grow a healer’s business, I was:

  • the keynote speaker at the American Massage Therapy Association national convention
  • the marketing coach for more than 400 different healers, the author of the Grow a Rich Massage Business trilogy of books, as well as Healer, Heal Thyself

This class cost $120 in the past, but is being priced now for just:
$49.99 if payment is in by February 26,

a saving of more than $70

$59.99 if payment is received by March 5, a saving of more than $60

$69.99 after.

I’ve coached Oscar-winners Alan Arkin (Little Miss Sunshine) and Pietro Scalia (JFK, Black Hawk Down), Emmy-winners comic/director David Steinberg (Academy Awards presentations) and Judy Henderson (Homeland), and Quality Inns. I also owned a marketing and public relations firm for 18 years, and was in charge of the company’s New Business Program.

Product Profile

This issue’s product is “How to Overcome Procrastination NOW,” (see cover below), a 2-hour-plus DVD of a live workshop that teaches win/win fun techniques to stop procrastinating something in your life; offers bite-sized approaches to tackling large chores; and presents the Procrastination Aerobics–a 14-minute daily program to raise self-esteem, thus preventing future procrastination.

The cost is slight–just $30, plus $3 for shipping and handling.

You can find it at

or order it by emailing,

or calling (845)-664-1883.

Free Coaching

To celebrate March, the month of my Mom’s birthday, I’m offering a complimentary half-hour coaching session for the first person who contacts me by phone (845-664-1883), or by email at who wants to have some breakthroughs in his or her life. It’s my way of giving thanks for the great life that I’m blessed to live. There are only four restrictions, but please read them carefully:

You haven’t already received a free coaching session from me.

You’re not currently involved in a series of coaching sessions with me

You book the session within three days of winning, so if you call or email, check my response and respond in time. If you forget to do this, someone on the waiting list will take your place, as happens from time to time.

You take the session before March 15.


Here is an affirmation from my series on procrastination, success, relationships, communication, and the inner journey, which are available in five ebooks and three CDs.

“It’s a pleasure to teach my children and be taught by them.”

–Affirmations Make the Heart Grow Fonder,

Are you the Designer for my Next Book on The Wizard of Oz?

I’m working on a book about The Wizard of Oz that will be published some time in 2017. Would you like to be the designer for that book? If you or someone you know might be interested, pls. contact me at (845) 664-1883 or by email at

Quotes about an Expert

Bill Gates was a Harvard dropout. He co-owned a business called Traf-O-Data, which was a true failure. However, skill and a passion for computer programming turned this failure into the pioneer of famous software company Microsoft and the then 31-year-old into the world’s youngest self-made billionaire. In his own words:

“It’s fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure.”

This isn’t to say that dropping out of Harvard will make you into a billionaire, but maybe that shiny degree isn’t worth as much as the drive and passion to succeed.

Quotes of the Month


“Be more interested in your inner state in any given situation than what is happening in the outer situation.” — Eckart Tolle

“We see the world not as it is, but as we are.” –Ken Keyes


NBA coaches Phil Jackson and Doc Rivers had something in common. They both used visualization techniques to help their players. Rivers has used exercises to help his team see themselves as champions. Four days after he took over the team, he wanted the Clippers to plan out their championship parade route.

The Cosmic & The Comic

“When God laughs at the soul and the soul laughs back at God, the persons of the Trinity are begotten. When the Father laughs at the Son and the Son laughs back at the Father, that laughter gives pleasure, that pleasure gives joy, that joy gives love, and that love is the Holy Spirit.”

–Meister Eckhart


At a time of massive income inequality, Gravity Payments in Seattle will pay every one on its 120-person staff a minimum salary of $70K over the next 3 years.

Testimonial on Coaching

“What keeps me on track with my Higher Self is my talking with Cary Bayer. He helps me clear the channels for my best actions and thinking going forward.”

–Priscilla Gulliver, licensed massage therapist,
St. Augustine, FL

Syndicated “Life 101” Column

The column below ran in syndication in a variety of wellness publications, including Arizona Together in the past.

Do You Gamble on Your Happiness?

People gamble on lotteries, on slot machines, on football games.   Rarely, do you hear someone gamble on happiness. And yet, every day most people actually do gamble on their own happiness.

Most people derive happiness based on what happens that day. If they get a massage, a new client or a raise at work, or their child or grandchild gets a prize they’ll be happy. Conversely, if they lose at tennis, lose a client or a possible promotion at work, or their child or grandchild gets sick they’ll be unhappy. Said differently, their happiness is a function of what happens to them and those they care about. It’s outer-dependent and usually out of their control. Hence, my expression “gambling on their happiness.” Like a roulette wheel, if it shows up red they lose, if it shows up black they win. It’s a tough way to live.

The good news is that there’s a deeper happiness that’s inner-dependent, and even better news is that it’s possible to

A) connect to that happiness daily

B) live from that state, as well.

Outer-dependent happiness comes about through the senses, your arms, legs and the rest of your body. Inner-dependent happiness doesn’t involve them, and arises when they’re completely at rest. The yogis of India call this inner happiness Ananda, Sanskrit for bliss. Ananda exists in abundance–infinite in fact–at the deepest level of your mind, where your individuality and your universality meet.

Meditation is the primary path to this concentrated happiness; the yogis of India call this brief experience of the inner Self Samadhi, which translates from the Sanskrit as “steady mind.” In other words, when the mind is steadiest, when it comes to rest and your conscious mind becomes consciousness, no longer aware of any thing in particular but awake within itself, Samadhi is achieved. Even the word “achieved” is a misnomer, because Samadhi isn’t something you can achieve like writing a book, cooking a meal, or even walking to the mailbox. It’s a state of Being, beyond the doing of your everyday actions, beyond the perceptions of your five senses, and beyond the thoughts of your thinking mind. It’s a fourth state of consciousness, as distinct from waking, dreaming, and sleeping, as each of them is from each other.

This is the knowledge elucidated by the yogis, and I can vouch for it from my own personal experience of having meditated since the age of 17 and taught Transcendental Meditation since three years after that until 2010 when I began teaching Higher Self Healing Meditation.

A fleeting experience of Samadhi that lasts for maybe a second or two or a minute or more brings a concentrated download of happiness into your mind. So when you come out of meditation your mind is infused with this happy state, making it so much easier to derive happiness out of the simplest things that you may see or do immediately afterwards. In an hour or so, almost all of that happiness fades out of consciousness; that’s not a bad thing, per se, it’s just the way of things. A little of it, however, still remains.

Regular exposure to the experience of Being within enables more and more of this precious bliss to habituate itself into the nature of your mind. Over the course of years of such exposure, the individual mind becomes saturated with that happiness; in fact, the mind comes to live in a state of happiness. The yogis of India have a name for this as well: Moksha, or liberation. In English, we call this Self-Realization, when you have come to identify yourself as both an individual being, who the world knows you as, and one with the Universal Being. This state of Enlightenment enables you to bring a truckload of happiness with you wherever you go and to whatever you do. This makes the activity of outer-dependent happiness, of course, much easier to achieve. In the Emerald City in The Wizard of Oz everyone wore green glasses, so that everything appeared to be green. When you wear happiness glasses, it’s awfully hard not to see happiness. Your gambling on happiness has ended.

New Publishing Venture Set up for You to Fulfill that Dream

How would you like to have your own book published and available on Amazon? That dream can now become a reality, with the help of on-demand publishing technology, and the writing, editing, graphic design, and marketing and public relations team that I’ve put in place for that very purpose.

Here’s the team that’s set up for you:

  • A graphic designer who has worked for Disney World, Harley Davidson, and Touchstone Pictures, among other credits. She’s also a complete joy to work with, as I can attest–she was the designer on my most recent book, 40 Days to a Happy Life.
  • A writer/editor who’s been a columnist for The Motley Fool, the editor-in-chief for,, and, who has edited five books and was the ghost writer on one. She also wrote for such Fortune 500 companies as Merrill Lynch, Morgan Stanley, Charles Schwab, Prudential, and the Hartford, among others.
  • Also on the team as a writer is yours truly. I’ve written five full-length books and more than three dozen mini-books.

The venture’s book publicist has helped authors make the best-seller lists of the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal, and has had her clients featured on Oprah, The Today Show, Good Morning, America, Time, Newsweek, Business Week, Forbes, NPR, Redbook, and Ladies’ Home Journal, among others. She’s worked for such authors as Jack Canfield and Jacqueline Miller, Heart at Work (McGraw-Hill); Terri Orbuch, 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great (Random House); Sophy Burnham, The Path of Prayer: Reflections on Prayer and True Stories of How It Affects Our Lives (Viking Penguin); and Charles Garfield, Susun Weed, Gerald Celente, and Drs. Susan Lark, Ro Brock, and Stephen Sinatra, among others, and for authors who’ve been published by virtually every major publishing house in America.

If you’d like to talk about how you can have a dream come true and have your own book or mini-book in print, and would either like to write it or have someone ghost write it for you, don’t hesitate to call at (954) 788-3380, or email me at We’re here to make that dream of yours come true.

Higher Self Healing Meditation

I’m proud to announce the development of a new meditation training that’s been marinating in the quietest levels of consciousness deep within my soul for a number of years.

Its name is Higher Self Healing Meditation, and it’s as effortless as Transcendental Meditation (TM) that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi trained me to teach when I was 20 years old.

Some years back, the movement that teaches the late Maharishi’s system of TM significantly changed the requirements for those who had been teaching to continue to do so. As a result, thousands of others, including myself, no longer instruct that method. But understanding the mechanics of how the mind transcends in meditation after teaching meditation to so many hundreds of people from southern California and Western Europe to the Caribbean and many points in between-as well as training dozens of teachers of Transcendental Meditation–I’ve developed a system of meditation that’s as effective as TM, as easy as TM, and available at one third the price that it costs to learn TM.

Have you thought about incorporating a daily stress-management system to:

  • release deep-rooted tension,
  • increase energy,
  • stimulate creativity,
  • enliven happiness, and enable you to contact the inexhaustible reservoir of creativity and intelligence deep within you at the transcendental level of Being?

If so, let me know, and I can explain how easy it is to learn over the course of five hours in three consecutive days. You can reach me by email at or by phone at (845) 679-5526.

Blog Cabin

I have my site set up properly, and I’ve begun to write regularly. If you would like to have my blog entries emailed to you, there’s a place on my website where you can enter your email address:

Social Media

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on Twitter at @carybayer

and on Instagram at

Referral Fees

When I ran my own marketing/PR firm, I loved thanking anyone who referred a new client to me, by sending a check for 10 percent of the fees generated. I have a similar policy as a life coach, a meditation teacher, and the writer of books for others. If you inspire someone to become a client of mine for coaching or book writing, or a meditation student, you’ll receive 10 percent of the fee that that person begins with me at. That could easily mean a check for you of $105 or $65 for coaching, for $50 for meditation, and hundreds of dollars for book publishing. It’s my way of saying, “thanks.” My thought is simple–who couldn’t use a piece of unexpected income?

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Love & Light,

Cary Bayer

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