Newsletter March 2011
BREAKTHROUGH NEWS
March 2011
1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604
(954) 788-3380
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web site: http://www.carybayer.com
“Everyone who will can hear the Voice. It is within everyone, but like everything else, it requires previous and definite preparation.”
–Mahatma Gandhi
Cary’s February newsletter is now online
- Four New Classes
- Want to Write a Book?
- Free coaching
- Affirmations
- SEO Support
- Quote from the “Expert”
- Quotes of the Month
- Signs of an Age of Enlightenment
- Breakthroughs in Media
- The Cosmic and the Comic
- Factoid
- Syndicated “Life 101″ Column
- Testimonial on HSM
- Testimonial on Coaching
- Higher Self Meditation
- Blog Cabin
- Face to Face to Facebook
- Referral Fees
- Growth Products from Cary Bayer
New Full Length-Book: 40 Days to a Happy Life
For the past year, I’ve been writing a full-length book called 40 Days to a Happy Life, featuring ideas, techniques, and strategies to awaken more joy in your life in less than six weeks. Each chapter contains an inner or outer tip to bring about more happiness for that day. By outer, I mean the doing of something that you love that day. The inner refers to the use of stress management techniques that awaken the capacity to derive happiness from whatever it is that you do each day, even the things that you’re required to do, but don’t necessarily enjoy.
This 160-page publication is now available for $16, plus $2.50 shipping and handling through my Internet store, by mail at 1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604, Hillsboro Beach, FL 33062, or by calling 954-788-3380.
Four New Classes: “40 Days to a Happy Life;”
“The Gospels & the Gita: The Transformative Teachings of Christ & Krishna;”
From Ritual to Spiritual: Embodying the
Teachings of Christ;”
“The Peace & Freedom Beyond Complaining”
It’s been a fertile time for my consciousness of late, as four different classes, which have been gestating within me for some time, have been birthed.
Growing organically out of my new book, described above, is a class that carries the same title and promises to teach participants tools to enable them to derive more happiness from the things they do, while adding more things they love into their daily lives.
The “Gospels/Gita” workshop, which offers tools to accelerate your spiritual development as Christ and Krishna invited us to do, grows organically out of two deep spiritual paths of mine. The first of the studies- the Bhagavad Gita, the textbook of Yoga-began when I was 18. The second is the teachings of Christ, which I’ve done for the past 10 years as a result of my experience teaching in more than 60 churches, or houses of Christ.
The third class-”From Ritual to Spiritual”–provides Christians with additional tools to transform their belief and faith in Christ to a deeper experience of the spiritual truths he taught and embodied.
The last class-”Beyond Complaining”–invites attendees to glimpse what life could be like if they transcended complaining. It teaches a technique to keep you far more mindful of the complaints that rise up in the mind and seek expression in speech, while helping you resist the urge. The peace and freedom that results from moving beyond this insidious habit is huge.
If you’d like to see any of these classes in your area, speak with a venue about inviting me to teach it, or if you’d like to offer it yourself, take the class for free, and make 40 percent of the revenues that it generates, email me or call me at 954-788-3380.
Want to Write a Book? New Publishing Venture
Set Up for You to Fulfill that Dream
Here’s the team that’s set up for you:
- A graphic designer who has worked for Disney World, Harley Davidson, and Touchstone Pictures, among other credits. She’s also a complete joy to work with, as I can attest–she was the designer on my most recent book, 40 Days to a Happy Life.
- A writer/editor who’s been a columnist for The Motley Fool, the editor-in-chief for Mortgageloan.com, Completegrowth.com, and Creditland.com, who has edited five books and was the ghost writer or contributor on three. She also wrote for such Fortune 500 companies as Merrill Lynch, Morgan Stanley, Charles Schwab, Prudential, and the Hartford, among others.
- Also on the team as a writer is yours truly. I’ve written five full-length books and more than three dozen mini-books.
- The venture’s book publicist has helped authors make the best-seller lists of the New York Timesand the Wall Street Journal, and has had her clients featured on Oprah, The Today Show,Good Morning, America, Time, Newsweek,Business Week, Forbes, NPR, Redbook, andLadies’ Home Journal, among others. She’s worked for such authors as Jack Canfield and Jacqueline Miller, Heart at Work (McGraw-Hill); Terri Orbuch, 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great (Random House); Sophy Burnham, The Path of Prayer: Reflections on Prayer and True Stories of How It Affects Our Lives (Viking Penguin); and Charles Garfield, Susun Weed, Gerald Celente, and Drs. Susan Lark, Ro Brock, and Stephen Sinatra, among others, and for authors who’ve been published by virtually every major publishing house in America.
If you’d like to talk about how you can have a dream come true and have your own book or mini-book in print, and would either like to write it or have someone ghost write it for you, don’t hesitate to call at (954) 788-3380, or email me. We’re here to make that dream of yours come true.
Free Coaching
- You haven’t already received a free coaching session from me.
- You’re not currently involved in a series of coaching sessions with me.
- You book the session within three days of winning, so if you call or email, check my response and respond in time. If you forget, your place will be taken by someone next in line.
- You take the session before March 15.
Affirmations
“When I support the work of the Higher Power, the Higher Power supports me beyond my wildest dreams.” –Magnetizing Money: Affirmations for Attracting Abundance
“My journey is a joyful one back to the source of the highest joy imaginable.” – Follow Your Yellow Brick Road: Provisions for your Inner Journey
“Even if I’ve been hurt in love, it’s safe to love again.” –Affirmations make the Heart Grow Fonder
SEO Support
I’m in the process of finding a new Search Engine Optimization expert to assist me in expanding website traffic and Internet marketing. If you or someone you know might be that person, you can let me know at 954-788-3380 or by email.
Quote from the “Expert”
Strange Interlude
“Strange Interlude will probably interest a comparatively small public. It is solid gray in tone, slow-paced and repetitious in performance, and forbidding in length.”
–Burns Mantle, drama critic, New York Daily News, reviewing the opening of the Eugene O’Neill play on Broadway, 1/31/28. The play turned out to be one of the most profitable presentations in the history of the Theatre Guilda.
Quotes of the Month
“Chase your passion, not your pension.”–Denis Waitley
“The secret to success is making your vacation your vocation.”–Mark Twain
Signs of an Age of Enlightenment?
The groundswell of desire for representative democracy that’s spreading throughout the Middle East is a sign of rising consciousness and enlightenment.
Breakthroughs in Marketing & Media
“AT&T has a new ad campaign: “Rethink possibilities.”
The Cosmic and the Comic
“He who is no longer in bondage to desire, or to the self, or the law, he who is no longer torn apart by alienation and anxiety, and who is no longer defined and determined primarily by seriousness, can now laugh with the laughter of little children and great sages.”–Conrad Hyers
Factoid
More than 50 percent of California students in public schools are Latino and Hispanic.
Syndicated “Life 101″ Column
The column below ran in syndication throughout a variety of wellness publications, including Arizona Together.
The Fourth (State’s) the Charm
“The fourth (state of consciousness), say the wise, is not subjective experience, nor objective experience, nor experience intermediate between these two, nor is it a negative condition which is neither consciousness nor unconsciousness. It is not the knowledge of the senses, nor is it relative knowledge, nor yet inferential knowledge. Beyond the senses, beyond the understanding, beyond all expression, is the Fourth. It is pure unitary consciousness, wherein awareness of the world and of multiplicity is completely obliterated. It is ineffable peace. It is the supreme good. It is One without a second. It is the Self. Know it alone!” – The Upanishads
Unless you’re Rip Van Winkle or in a coma–neither of which applies if you’re reading this now-you’re familiar on a daily and nightly basis with the three changing states of consciousness. They are, in ascending order, dreamless sleep, dreaming, and waking. Underlying this trio of changing states is a fourth state-described in the quote above-that most people have never even glimpsed.
This fourth reality is non-changing, it’s beyond time, and the good news is, that it’s your true Self. It’s also bliss. When you take that into account, it’s a shame that so many people are unfamiliar with it. When you live without it as a cushion, you’re like a soccer ball being kicked around. When you live with it, you live a steadfast peace, regardless of what’s going on in your life. Instead of being booted around like that soccer ball, you have much more happiness, energy, creativity, clarity, peace, and vitality, to boot.
This same principle of the importance of the fourth is also evident in the national pastime of baseball, in which an inning is meaningless if you put runners on each of the three bases without scoring any of them. It’s only when a runner safely reaches the fourth base (home plate)-the one he started from when he came to bat in the first place-that a run goes up on the scoreboard. We have an expression in our language that goes, “The third time’s the charm.” As far as baseball and consciousness are concerned, however, the truth really is that “the fourth time’s the charm.” Or better yet, “the fourth state is charming.”
How to Awaken the Fourth
The connection to your higher Self in this fourth state of consciousness is possible at any moment of the day or night in the waking state, or at any moment of the night–or day, for nappers–in the sleeping or dreaming states. That’s because your true Self–the infinite silence and peace of your inner non-changing Being–underlies every moment in time of the three changing states. The easiest way to contact this state beyond activity, perception, thought and feeling-this state of pure Being–is to allow your changing mind to settle into the non-changing peace of the Self. Meditation is the best way to do this because, being in a seated position, you’re not going anywhere and, with your eyes closed, you’ve begun the process of reducing perception. When you use a mantra to quiet the thinking process, you further increase the odds for making contact with the fourth state of consciousness at the source of thought itself.
For purposes of full disclosure, I have been contacting this fourth state since I was 17, when I learned Transcendental Meditation (TM). Three years later, I began teaching it, as well, and have taught many hundreds of others through 2009. I also trained dozens of TM teachers. In 2010, inspired by my experience as a TM teacher, I launched Higher Self Meditation, which accomplishes this contact with the Fourth as effectively as TM, and at a third of the cost.
If you’re one of those people who hasn’t yet connected to the infinite silence, peace, and bliss of your higher Self-the non-changing fourth state underlying your changing experiences of waking, dreaming, and sleeping-why not come home? When a runner does that in baseball in the bottom of the ninth to win the game, his teammates mob him and give him high-fives. If you do this in Higher Self Meditation, you will feel high—and you’ll be on your way to experience state of consciousness five, in which the non-changing fourth state co-exists on a 24/7 basis with the changing three states. But that’s a whole other column.
Testimonial on Higher Self Meditation
“I was only two days into my Higher Self Meditation (HSM) course when I noticed that I no longer needed to drink Coca-Cola, which had been a two-year addiction, drinking at least six cans a day. I also no longer needed to add sugar to my coffee. I feel more relaxed and at peace. I have read the books of Eckhart Tolle and Dr. Frank Kinslow, and watched their videos for over two years. They both say that there is no technique to reach your higher Self. Well, there is, and it is Higher Self Meditation. I reached my higher Self in the first session.
“Thank you so much, Cary, for teaching me this technique. I will have this for life. What more could I ask for? I highly recommend HSM to anyone and everyone.”
–Rox-Ann Crepin, Homemaker, Pompano Beach, FL
Testimonial on Coaching
“Thank you for the gift of your allowing your Spirit to flourish in my coaching sessions. Having opportunities to witness this in you reinforces, inspires, and frees me to do the same.”
–Theresa Grosso, licensed massage therapist, Syracuse, NY
Higher Self Meditation
I’m proud to announce the development of a new meditation training that’s been marinating in the quietest levels of consciousness deep within my soul for a number of years.
Its name is Higher Self Meditation, and it’s as effortless as Transcendental Meditation (TM) that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi trained me to teach when I was 20 years old.
Some years back, the movement that teaches the late Maharishi’s system of TM significantly changed the requirements for those who had been teaching to continue to do so. As a result, thousands of teachers, including myself, no longer instruct that method. But understanding the mechanics of how the mind transcends in meditation after teaching meditation to so many hundreds of people from southern California and Western Europe to the Caribbean and many points in between–as well as training dozens of teachers of Transcendental Meditation–I’ve developed a system of meditation that’s as effective as TM, as easy as TM, and available at one third the price that it costs to learn TM. HSM can be learned in about five hours over the course of three straight days.
Have you thought about incorporating a daily stress-management system to:
- release deep-rooted tension,
- increase energy,
stimulate creativity,
enliven happiness, and
enable you to contact the inexhaustible reservoir of creativity and intelligence deep within you at the transcendental level of Being?
If so, let me know, and I can explain how easy it is to learn. You can reach me by email or by phone at (954) 788-3380.
Blog Cabin
The blogosphere has been active for many for quite some time, so I know I’m joining the party after it’s gotten well underway. In truth, I began blogging last summer for a very short time, and then put it on hold. But now that I’m working with SEO guru Doug Motel (to whom I gave a big rave review in my last newsletter), I have my site set up properly, and I’ve begun to write regularly.
If you would like to have my blog entries emailed to you, there’s a place on my website where you can enter your website address.
Face to Face to Facebook
With the Internet being a much faster means of transport than the Interstate highways I find myself on each month, the World Wide Web is, like rock ‘n’ roll, here to stay, and presumably, also will never die. That being the case, I’ve recently created two pages on Facebook that can help you create breakthroughs in a variety of ways. The pages are called:
Cary Bayer Breakthrough Coaching
Why not bookmark the address?
And
Business Coaching for Massage Therapists
Why not bookmark the address?
Why the latter? Because, these handy (pun intended) healers comprise the largest percentage of my coaching client population. So check your Facebook walls and let me know what you think about my posts.
By the way, if you’re not yet a fan of either page, you can join up easily at either of the addresses above.
Referral Fees
When I ran my own marketing/PR firm, I loved thanking anyone who referred a new client to me by sending a check for 10 percent of the fees generated. I have a similar policy as a life coach. If you inspire someone to become my client, you’ll receive 10 percent of the fee that that person begins coaching with me at. That could easily mean a check for you of $105 or $65. It’s my way of saying, “thanks.” My thought is simple–who couldn’t use a piece of unexpected income?
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