Cary Bayer

1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604,

Hillsboro Beach, FL 33062

(954) 788-3380

Woodstock, NY 12498

(845) 664-1883



“Everyone who will can hear the Voice. It is within everyone, but like everything else, it requires previous and definite preparation.”

–Mahatma Gandhi


New Mini-Book Published: Peace Trumps Hate: Tools for Spiritual & Political Empowerment; Group Coaching on Relationships 6-Week Program; 25% Off Holiday Sale; Holiday Hours; New Class: “Discover Why You’re Here;” Webinar on Creating a $100,000 Healing Arts Business; 20% off CD Sale; Free Coaching; Affirmations; Quote from the “Experts;” Quotes of the Month; Breakthroughs; The Cosmic and Comic; Factoid; Testimonial about Coaching; Column: “A Judgment-Free Zone;” Schedule of Classes; Meditation Training now Available by Webcam; Want to Write a Book?; Higher Self Healing Meditation; Blog Cabin; Face to Face to Facebook; Referral Fees; Books and CDs

New Mini-Book Published:

Peace Trumps Hate: Tools for

Spiritual & Political Empowerment

This 76-page mini-book carries a two-fold purpose. First off, it’s designed to help those who are unhappy with President Trump to come to peace with him, so that they free themselves of any toxic energy they’re carrying within themselves about him. It then reveals a 13-part series of activities that such people can do to help block the agenda of this president.

The book sells for $12, plus $3.50 for shipping and handling, and can be ordered at

or at

by emailing me at or by calling me at

(845) 664-1883

Group Coaching on Relationships Starting in February: Breakthroughs at a Fraction of the Cost

Some people at the end of my classes tell me they wish that coaching would cost less. While I’ve always kept my rates very competitive with respect to other life and business coaches, I’ve come up with a form of coaching that’s so inexpensive virtually everybody can afford it. It’s called Group Coaching.

It takes place on a conference line phone call for no more than six people, and it focuses on one topic. Each person in the group will get individual coaching on each call, while everyone else listens and profits, having your issues repeatedly brought up by other people because we stay focused on the topic of enriching your relationships, be they with your significant other, your parents, kids, siblings, friends, bosses, co-workers, clients, neighbors, and so forth. A group consciousness also develops, enabling a synergistic effect to usher in breakthroughs for one and all.

The author of Relationships 101, who’s been leading workshops on the subject for the past 15 years and coaching people on the topic for as long, I look forward to helping you create breakthroughs in having far more satisfying and loving relationships.

The hour-long sessions will take place from

8:30-9:30 PM Eastern time

and will be held on six consecutive Thursday nights:

February 1, 8, 15, 22, & March 1 and 8.

The program is open to the first six people who register. The cost for the Group Coaching Program is $30 per session if 6 people register, $35 per session if less than 6 register.

If you’d like to guarantee your spot, call 845-664-1883.

New Class: “Discover Why You’re Here”

My most recently developed class, which could very well become the most popular of the many classes that I offer, addresses the deepest questions that people ask themselves. Hence, its title: “Discover Why You’re Here.” A description follows below.

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“What college student hasn’t pondered the existential question, ‘Why am I here?’ Others have asked, ‘Who am I?’ Pilate asked Jesus, ‘What is Truth?’ All of these questions are answered profoundly in the workshop, “Discover Why You Are Here.” It looks at four main reasons why you’re here:

1. To realize your true nature (which the Yogis call Moksha).

2. To heal your relationships with the people in your life (which the Yogis call cleaning up your Karma).

3. To take the talents God gave you and bring them into the world. (The yogis call this doing your Dharma.)

4. To heal the planet. (Jewish people call this Tikkun-olam.)

“The workshop will show you how effortlessly meditation can bring you to an experience of your true Self. It will teach a technique to help you come to peace with anyone and everyone in your life who you are not at peace with. It will also show you how to discover your Dharma. Lastly, it will inspire you to create a project that can help heal the world.”

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If you’d like to offer this class at your venue, at your clubhouse, at your office, or in your home, let me know (845-664-1883). You would take the class for free and receive 40% of its revenues, while making a huge difference in the lives of those who take it.

25% off Holiday Sale

In the spirit of the holiday season, I’m running a “25 percent off sale” through December 23 on all of my products and services. That means my:

  • private coaching
  • meditation classes
  • books, CDs, DVDs, ebooks, and mini-books

You can access a full description of all products at the store at

Because products at the site are listed at their normal prices, I’ll send a 25% rebate if you buy on the site’s shopping cart.

You can also place the order by email at (by including your credit card information), sending a check in the mail to

1051 Hillsboro Mile, Apt. 604

Hillsboro Beach, FL 33062

or by calling


To enjoy the 25% off sale, please use the code NEWS SALE 17. Please note: There’s a $3.00 shipping and handling charge per item for mini-books, $3.50 for books, CDs, and DVDs.

Holiday Hours

I’ll be taking off from December 24 through January 1, so I won’t be returning emails, phone calls, or texts during this period.

How would you Like to Have a $100,000 Healing Arts Business?

Let this 6-CE (for massage therapists) Webinar Show you How

On Wednesday January 10, my 6-CE seminar,

“Build a $100,000 a Year Healing Arts Business,”

will take place live on four consecutive Wednesday nights–

from 8–9:30 PM eastern time, with ALL sessions recorded for

playback at your convenience in case you miss a session or just want to hear it again.

Those dates are:

January 10, 17, 24, & 31

Uniquely qualified to grow your business, I was the keynote speaker at the AMTA national convention, and the marketing coach for more than 300 different massage therapists, and dozens of other healers, the author of the Grow a Rich Massage Business trilogy of books.

In this 4-part webinar, you’ll learn a daily 15-minute “inner workout” that will transform you into a perpetual money magnet, and make success as natural as stronger abs and muscle tone is for those who do physical aerobics.

You’ll also learn “Going to the Market,” a 45-minute program, where I share critical marketing secrets, such as:

  • Turning almost anyone you meet into a client without lifting a finger
  • A proven powerful plan that will regularly drive a line of referrals to your door

This class has cost $175 in the past, but is now offered for just

$74.99 if payment is in by December 23

–a saving of more than $100

It inches up to $84.99 if payment is received by December 31,

a saving of more than $90

And finally $99.99 after, a saving still of more than $75.

I’ve coached Oscar-winners Alan Arkin (Little Miss Sunshine) and Pietro Scalia (JFK, Black Hawk Down), Emmy-winners comic/director David Steinberg (Academy Awards presentations), and Judy Henderson (Homeland), and Quality Inns. I also owned a marketing and public relations firm for 18 years.

I write columns regularly on marketing, coaching, and success for Massage Today, for massage publications in 14 states, and write and blog for Massage Magazine. My CE classes have been popular with MTs throughout the country, and now you can enjoy them from the comfort of your very own home.

You can register for the course by emailing

or by calling

(845) 664-1883

Peace & Prosperity,

Cary Bayer, the Marketing Coach for Massage Therapists

(845) 664-1883

20% Off Sale — “Magnetizing Money:

Affirmations for Attracting Abundance”

This empowering CD enables you to learn how to attract more money into your life. Easy-to-master A-to-Z formulas can turn you into a powerful money magnet. The product normally costs $15, but is available for just $12 through December 23.

To order it, please email me at

or call me at (845) 664-1883.

Don’t attempt to purchase it on the website as it’s not adjusted for this sale.

Free Coaching

To celebrate January, the beginning of a new year, I’m offering a complimentary half-hour coaching session for the first person who contacts me by phone (845-664-1883), or by email at who wants to have some breakthroughs in his or her life. It’s my way of giving thanks for the great life that I’m blessed to live. There are only four restrictions, but please read them carefully:

1) You haven’t already received a free coaching session from me.

2) You’re not currently involved in a series of coaching sessions with me.

3) You book the session within three days of winning, so if you call or email, check my response and respond in time. If you forget to do this, someone on the waiting list will take your place, as happens from time to time.

4) You take the session before January 15.


Here is an affirmation from my series on procrastination, success, relationships, communication, and the inner journey, which are available in five ebooks and three CDs.

“Everything I ever need is right in my own backyard.”

–Follow Your Yellow Brick Road: Provisions for your Inner Journey

Are you the Designer for my Next Book on

The Wizard of Oz?

I’ve completed a book about The Wizard of Oz that will be published some time in 2018. Would you like to be the designer for that book? If you or someone you know might be interested, pls. contact me at (845) 664-1883 or by email at

Quote about an Expert

In what might be at once the most discouraging statement and worst teaching practice of all time, Thomas Edison was told by his teachers he was “too stupid to learn anything.” This “stupid” student went on to hold more than 1,000 patents, completely changing life, with the inventions of the phonograph and electric lamp. Death most likely spared his teachers the ignominy of their incorrect assessment.

Quote of the Month


“We never know how high we are till we are called to rise.”

–Emily Dickinson

“Courage carries us to the stars; fear leads us to death.”



Aetna CEO Mark Bertolini has brought meditation and mindfulness to his company’s 50,000 employees. More than a quarter of them have taken him up on the free classes.

The Cosmic & The Comic

“Blessed is he who makes his companions laugh.”

–The Koran


Each day, the kidneys process about 200 quarts (50 gallons) of blood to filter out about 2 quarts of waste and water.

Testimonial on Coaching

“Cary is a great coach. He is honest, funny, caring, and dependable. He has great ideas and is a great communicator!”

–Liz Yerkes

Licensed Massage Therapist

Longboat Key, FL

Syndicated “Life 101” Column

The column below ran in syndication in a variety of wellness publications, including Together Arizona in the past.

A Judgment-Free Zone

“Judge not, lest you be judged.”

–Jesus, Matthew 7:1-2

In January, the largest number of people enroll in health clubs and

gyms to work off all that holiday party eating and lose the weight they resolved to do as the New Year unfolded. Working out in my Planet Fitness gym, I saw a sign in big black letters perhaps two feet high that read, “A Judgment Free Zone.” And I thought…what a great idea for a gym, a place where people of all shapes, sizes, and muscle mass can exercise without fear of being laughed at or judged for their weight or how much weight they can pump.

Then it hit me: what an even greater idea for a mind. Imagine if your mind was a judgment-free zone. Imagine going through your day without judging real housewives TV show (no matter how hard that might ordinarily be for you). Imagine going through your day without judging yourself (no matter how hard that ordinarily might be for you). Then I took the idea one big step further. We already have drug-free zones near schools. Imagine if the whole city was a judgment-free zone.

In other words, you could be walking down the street wearing an outfit of mismatched top and bottom that your wife or husband thought looked ridiculous. (I know…some of you can’t even imagine wearing such clothes but humor me here.) And you knew that you wouldn’t be judged by any passersby. Take it a few big steps even further: there could be a judgment-free zone in your state, your country, and finally, a judgment-free zone in your world. If we did that, my local Planet Fitness would be stretched, like the many muscles we use to work their equipment, to Consciousness Fitness.

That is what Jesus meant by his injunction quoted above. I

say Consciousness Fitness because you’re asked, if you’d like to have a spiritual awakening–what the forebears of your Yoga class

call Enlightenment–to raise your consciousness to a level that transcends judgment.

Perhaps it seems to you that it’s impossible not to judge. These days

you can’t even watch a cable TV news show in which your opinion isn’t asked about some item in the news, often requiring you to not just opine on the matter at hand, but to judge it. We have in our country nine judges (well, we’re supposed to have nine) who sit in the Supreme Court and hear the most important contested cases in the land, but don’t you also have a supreme judge who sits in your consciousness, who judges just about everything that passes by your eyes and ears. Judging, after all, comes naturally, right? Well, I’m not so sure. Preferring chocolate to vanilla is a matter of taste, not of judgment. So I’m not suggesting that you give up your preferences, but there’s a big difference between choosing chocolate over vanilla and judging vanilla as bad or not so tasty. Babies have their preferences, too, so it would appear as if preferences are, indeed, natural, but the idea of judging, of saying this is good and this is bad, appears to be something taught to us.

A jury which judges a criminal case simply finds for either guilt or

innocence with regard to the breaking of the law; judging the person as bad is an unnecessary step. The criminal’s actions are wrong in that they break the law, but the criminal himself is still an innocent child in the mind and heart of his mother and his Creator. Can we learn to let go of our judgments of him as a person?

The person I quoted about judgment at the beginning of this column

also said that Heaven is available to you if you learn to be like a child. Well, you once were a child, you have an inner child always inside of you, so if you can awaken that child’s innocent eyes you might just re-learn or simply awaken your natural ability to live your life without judging it at the same time.

New Publishing Venture Set up for You to Fulfill that Dream

How would you like to have your own book published and available on Amazon? That dream can now become a reality, with the help of on-demand publishing technology, and the writing, editing, graphic design, and marketing and public relations team that I’ve put in place for that very purpose.

Here’s the team that’s set up for you:

  • A graphic designer who has worked for Disney World, Harley Davidson, and Touchstone Pictures, among other credits. She’s also a complete joy to work with, as I can attest–she was the designer on my most recent book, 40 Days to a Happy Life.
  • A writer/editor who’s been a columnist for The Motley Fool, the editor-in-chief for,, and, who has edited five books and was the ghost writer on one. She also wrote for such Fortune 500 companies as Merrill Lynch, Morgan Stanley, Charles Sc
  • Also on the team as a writer is yours truly. I’ve written five full-length books and more than three dozen mini-books.
  • The venture’s book publicist has helped authors make the best-seller lists of the New York Times and the Wall Street Journal, and has had her clients featured on Oprah, The Today Show, Good Morning, America, Time, Newsweek, Business Week, Forbes, NPR, Redbook, and Ladies’ Home Journal, among others. She’s worked for such authors as Jack Canfield and Jacqueline Miller, Heart at Work (McGraw-Hill); Terri Orbuch, 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great (Random House); Sophy Burnham, The Path of Prayer: Reflections on Prayer and True Stories of How It Affects Our Lives (Viking Penguin); and Charles Garfield, Susun Weed, Gerald Celente, and Drs. Susan Lark, Ro Brock, and Stephen Sinatra, among others, and for authors who’ve been published by virtually every major publishing house in America.

If you’d like to talk about how you can have a dream come true and have your own book or mini-book in print, and would either like to write it or have someone ghost write it for you, don’t hesitate to call at (954) 788-3380, or email me at

We’re here to make that dream of yours come true.

Higher Self Healing Meditation

I’m proud to announce the development of a new meditation training that’s been marinating in the quietest levels of consciousness deep within my soul for a number of years.  Its name is Higher Self Healing Meditation, and it’s as effortless as Transcendental Meditation (TM) that Maharishi Mahesh Yogi trained me to teach when I was 20 years old.

Some years back, the movement that teaches the late Maharishi’s system of TM significantly changed the requirements for those who had been teaching to continue to do so. As a result, thousands of others, including myself, no longer instruct that method. But understanding the mechanics of how the mind transcends in meditation after teaching meditation to so many hundreds of people from southern California and Western Europe to the Caribbean and many points in between–as well as training dozens of teachers of Transcendental Meditation–I’ve developed a system of meditation that’s as effective as TM, as easy as TM, and available at one third the price that it costs to learn TM.

Have you thought about incorporating a daily stress-management system to:

  • release deep-rooted tension
  • increase energy
  • stimulate creativity
  • enliven happiness, and
  • enable you to contact the inexhaustible reservoir of creativity and intelligence deep within you at the transcendental level of Being?

If so, let me know, and I can explain how easy it is to learn over the course of five hours in three consecutive days. You can reach me by email at or by phone at (845) 679-5526.

Social Media

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Blog Cabin

I have my site set up properly, and I’ve begun to write regularly. If you would like to have my blog entries emailed to you, there’s a place on my website where you can enter your email address:

Referral Fees

When I ran my own marketing/PR firm, I loved thanking anyone who referred a new client to me, by sending a check for 10 percent of the fees generated. I have a similar policy as a life coach, a meditation teacher, and the writer of books for others. If you inspire someone to become a client of mine for coaching or book writing, or a meditation student, you’ll receive 10 percent of the fee that that person begins with me at. That could easily mean a check for you of $105 or $65 for coaching, for $50 for meditation, and hundreds of dollars for book publishing. It’s my way of saying, “thanks.” My thought is simple–who couldn’t use a piece of unexpected income?

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Love & Light,

Cary Bayer